Jesus said to him, " 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 22: 37-40
Have you noticed lately where much of the church has shifted it's focus? With reference to this concept of tolerance and acceptance, especially within our culture, I hear so often that "Jesus said to love your neighbor as yourself." Even nonbelievers know this scripture and consistently use it against believers to push acceptance of what we call "sin." Very often they add "He even told you to love your enemies" (Matt. 5: 44) in order to drive the point.
And I don't disagree with them. This is absolutely true. Jesus said all of those things. Jesus not only emphasized the commandments that people knew all too well, but even made them more difficult (for example, not only should I not commit adultery, but I shouldn't even look at other women lustfully or I've already committed adultery in my heart - Matt. 5: 28). But as we focus on loving our neighbors and our enemies, we can often look past the first and greatest commandment, to love God with everything that we are.
There is a reason God made this the first commandment to the Israelites (Exodus 20) and Jesus listed it first to the Pharisees here. Without God, there is nothing. He is meant to be first in everything that we do. And out of Him everything else will flow. Jesus told us to "seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all [provisions] shall be added to you" (Matt 6: 33). He is our source for everything that we need, so if we don't put Him at the top, we begin to miss out on the most important aspects of who we are and what we can do.
This also applies in regards to love. We are called to "love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love" (1 John 4: 7-8). God IS love. Not only does He love me, shown through His sacrifice of His Son for my stinking sinful soul, but He is the source of love. There is no love without Him. If I don't first love God with everything, then I can't love the people I like, let alone the people I don't. When I love Him and seek Him, He fills me with His love (Himself) so that I can then spill it out on others.
Unfortunately, love sometimes comes in the form of conviction and correction. I never understood this aspect of love until I had a son of my own. When he is committing an act that will inevitably bring harm to himself or others around him, it becomes necessary for me to intercede to prevent damaging behavior. God's love does the same thing for us and our sin to prevent us from living a life of pain and sorrow. A life away from Him.
Love accepts and tolerates everyone, but it cannot, in it's holy nature, accept and tolerate sins that exist to destroy us. If I am able to accept your life in sin and allow you to die away from a loving God, then I do not love you. Someone once said to me that if I loved him like a Christian was supposed to love, then I would stop talking about sin and God around him. That he was offended by all that Christian stuff. But if I truly believe what I know to be true, that Jesus saves us from our sin and makes us new to live the life God designed us to live, then he should be offended if I didn't tell him about it. If I kept it all to myself and didn't try to help him change to be the best form of himself, then I didn't love him at all. My God is love.
Father, I pray that in our culture of acceptance and tolerance, we would seek You first in everything that we do. As we draw into You, overflow us with Your love so that it spills out of us onto everyone around us, and then use that love for Your Holy Spirit to gain access to anyone that doesn't know you and change them into who You designed them to be. Thank you, Father, for showing and teaching us to love through Your Word. In Jesus' name, Amen!
Have you noticed lately where much of the church has shifted it's focus? With reference to this concept of tolerance and acceptance, especially within our culture, I hear so often that "Jesus said to love your neighbor as yourself." Even nonbelievers know this scripture and consistently use it against believers to push acceptance of what we call "sin." Very often they add "He even told you to love your enemies" (Matt. 5: 44) in order to drive the point.
And I don't disagree with them. This is absolutely true. Jesus said all of those things. Jesus not only emphasized the commandments that people knew all too well, but even made them more difficult (for example, not only should I not commit adultery, but I shouldn't even look at other women lustfully or I've already committed adultery in my heart - Matt. 5: 28). But as we focus on loving our neighbors and our enemies, we can often look past the first and greatest commandment, to love God with everything that we are.
There is a reason God made this the first commandment to the Israelites (Exodus 20) and Jesus listed it first to the Pharisees here. Without God, there is nothing. He is meant to be first in everything that we do. And out of Him everything else will flow. Jesus told us to "seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all [provisions] shall be added to you" (Matt 6: 33). He is our source for everything that we need, so if we don't put Him at the top, we begin to miss out on the most important aspects of who we are and what we can do.
This also applies in regards to love. We are called to "love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love" (1 John 4: 7-8). God IS love. Not only does He love me, shown through His sacrifice of His Son for my stinking sinful soul, but He is the source of love. There is no love without Him. If I don't first love God with everything, then I can't love the people I like, let alone the people I don't. When I love Him and seek Him, He fills me with His love (Himself) so that I can then spill it out on others.
Unfortunately, love sometimes comes in the form of conviction and correction. I never understood this aspect of love until I had a son of my own. When he is committing an act that will inevitably bring harm to himself or others around him, it becomes necessary for me to intercede to prevent damaging behavior. God's love does the same thing for us and our sin to prevent us from living a life of pain and sorrow. A life away from Him.
Love accepts and tolerates everyone, but it cannot, in it's holy nature, accept and tolerate sins that exist to destroy us. If I am able to accept your life in sin and allow you to die away from a loving God, then I do not love you. Someone once said to me that if I loved him like a Christian was supposed to love, then I would stop talking about sin and God around him. That he was offended by all that Christian stuff. But if I truly believe what I know to be true, that Jesus saves us from our sin and makes us new to live the life God designed us to live, then he should be offended if I didn't tell him about it. If I kept it all to myself and didn't try to help him change to be the best form of himself, then I didn't love him at all. My God is love.
Father, I pray that in our culture of acceptance and tolerance, we would seek You first in everything that we do. As we draw into You, overflow us with Your love so that it spills out of us onto everyone around us, and then use that love for Your Holy Spirit to gain access to anyone that doesn't know you and change them into who You designed them to be. Thank you, Father, for showing and teaching us to love through Your Word. In Jesus' name, Amen!